Readers know Antonimar Mello mainly through his long relationship with singer Lisa Lisa, whose real name is Lisa Velez. Public records place Mello beside Lisa Lisa by 2003, and Lisa Lisa’s biography lists their marriage from January 2005. A Nassau County docket also records that the court entered a judgment of divorce on August 29, 2022. For that reason, “former husband” is the safest current description.
A timeline tells more than the rumors
The earliest strong public evidence comes from a Getty Images/WireImage record of the 2003 Undefeated premiere. The image shows Lisa Lisa and Antonimar Mello together at the New York event on July 22, 2003.
Later reporting described Mello as Lisa Lisa’s longtime fiancé and said a January 2005 wedding was planned. Lisa Lisa’s self-verified IMDbPro biography lists Antonimar Mello as her spouse beginning in January 2005 and lists two children.
The current-status question requires a separate check. A publicly indexed Nassau County matrimonial docket shows that Antonimar M. Mello filed a divorce case against Lisa Velez-Mello on May 12, 2021. The docket then shows that the court entered a Judgment of Divorce on August 29, 2022. Older profiles that still show the marriage as current do not override that later court record.
What is known about their family?
Lisa Lisa’s self-verified IMDbPro biography lists two children with Antonimar Mello. That is useful evidence for the existence of a family connection, but it does not justify publishing the children’s names, ages, schools or other private details.
The available sources also offer no solid basis for a detailed story about their home life. Claims that Mello was a particular kind of husband, that he “supported” Lisa Lisa’s career, or that the couple followed a specific relationship philosophy are interpretations rather than documented facts.
What does Antonimar Mello do?
This is where the public record becomes more complicated.
An official AFM Digital Studio profile names Antonimar Mello, BSN, RN, as the company’s founder. It says he is a registered nurse on Long Island’s South Shore and describes his work building business software and digital services. The official OnCallRank site separately identifies Antonimar Mello, BSN, RN, as the founder of its hospital on-call scheduling software and describes him as a perioperative registered nurse.
Those are concrete professional records. However, the pages do not mention Lisa Lisa or Lisa Velez. The entertainment sources that establish the marriage do not identify Mello as a nurse or software founder.
So the careful conclusion is not that these are definitely two different men. It is that the public evidence does not establish that they are the same man. A responsible biography should flag that identity gap rather than silently merge the profiles.

Age, birthday and net worth remain unconfirmed
There is no reliable public source reviewed for this article that establishes Antonimar Mello’s exact birth date or age. Estimates based on photographs or comparisons with Lisa Lisa are not evidence.
The same caution applies when readers ask about net worth. No reliable financial disclosure, ownership record or documented asset base supports an exact figure or even a defensible personal range. Online “celebrity net worth” calculators should not be treated as financial evidence.
Why online biographies disagree
A simple problem causes much of the confusion: old profile information keeps circulating after newer records appear.
For example, IMDb still displays the marriage as “January 2005 – present,” even though the indexed Nassau County docket records a 2022 divorce judgment. That does not prove the database entry was once false. It shows why a current biography must check dates rather than copy a spouse field.
The same problem appears in articles that give Mello an exact age, a specific career, a meeting story or a personality profile without showing a reliable source. The available evidence is much narrower than those articles suggest.

What we can responsibly say about Antonimar Mello
The strongest public record supports this short biography:
- Mello was publicly associated with Lisa Lisa by July 2003.
- Lisa Lisa’s self-verified IMDbPro biography lists him as her spouse from January 2005 and lists two children.
- A Nassau County matrimonial docket records a divorce filing in 2021 and a judgment of divorce on August 29, 2022.
- A current professional website identifies an Antonimar Mello, BSN, RN, as a Long Island nurse and software founder, but the public evidence does not prove that profile belongs to Lisa Lisa’s former husband.
- His exact age, birthday, net worth and much of his personal history remain unverified.
For background on the person whose fame brought Mello into public view, Wikipedia’s Lisa Lisa biography provides an accessible overview. AllMusic’s profile of Lisa Lisa & Cult Jam provides additional career context.
Who is Antonimar Mello?
Antonimar Mello is a man publicly associated with singer Lisa Lisa, known professionally as Lisa Velez. He became visible in entertainment records through their relationship rather than through a documented entertainment career of his own.
Was Antonimar Mello married to Lisa Lisa?
Yes. Lisa Lisa’s self-verified IMDbPro biography lists Antonimar Mello as her spouse beginning in January 2005.
When did Antonimar Mello and Lisa Lisa marry?
The strongest accessible biographical record lists the marriage as beginning in January 2005. A precise wedding day and ceremony details were not established by the sources reviewed.
Are Antonimar Mello and Lisa Lisa still married?
No current marriage should be stated as fact. A publicly indexed Nassau County docket records a Judgment of Divorce dated August 29, 2022.
Do Antonimar Mello and Lisa Lisa have children?
Lisa Lisa’s self-verified IMDbPro biography lists two children. The article should not expand on their private details without a clear public-interest reason.
How old is Antonimar Mello?
The sources reviewed do not reliably document his exact age or date of birth.
What does Antonimar Mello do for a living?
An official AFM Digital Studio profile identifies an Antonimar Mello, BSN, RN, as a registered nurse and founder of the company. OnCallRank also identifies an Antonimar Mello, BSN, RN, as its founder. The sources do not prove that this professional identity is the same person as Lisa Lisa’s former husband.
Does Antonimar Mello have a Wikipedia page?
The research found no dedicated Wikipedia biography for Antonimar Mello. Lisa Lisa does have a Wikipedia page.
What is Antonimar Mello’s net worth?
The sources provide no reliable evidence for a verified net-worth figure. Any exact number found on automated celebrity-finance sites should be treated as speculation.
Is the BSN/RN Antonimar Mello the same person?
That remains unresolved from the public evidence reviewed. The professional profile is official and concrete, but it does not connect that nurse and software founder to Lisa Lisa.
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